finding myself at a personal crossroads
Two years ago, I found myself at a crossroads—personally and emotionally. After my own children lost a loved one, I watched them navigate the confusing, raw terrain of grief. I did my best to support them while grieving myself, and in that process, I felt a quiet calling growing inside me: I wanted to do more. I wanted to be there for other children walking a similar path.
A friend mentioned space2grieve and a training opportunity coming up soon. I barely hesitated—I applied, interviewed, and before I knew it, I was in the middle of the training within weeks. That was two years ago. Since then, I’ve had the privilege of supporting children aged 7 to 13 on their unique grief journeys.
volunteering, what it opens up
What I’ve come to learn is this: no two sessions are ever the same. Each child brings their own story, rhythm, and way of processing loss. Grief is not linear, and it certainly isn’t one-size-fits-all. My role isn’t to fix anything—but to hold space, to listen deeply, and to offer gentle guidance through whatever they need to express in that moment.
One of the most powerful aspects of this work is tapping into my own inner child—the creative, playful spirit that helps build trust and expression in a non-verbal, often joyful way. Whether it’s using art, storytelling, games, or quiet reflection, creativity becomes a bridge through which healing can begin.
space2grieve isn’t just a charity. it’s a community. it’s a lifeline
The support I receive through space2grieve is just as meaningful as the support I offer. Monthly supervision sessions are a lifeline—spaces of learning, reflection, and growth. They help me continually deepen my understanding, not just of grief and child development, but of myself. I’m always learning. Always evolving.
And the truth I’ve come to know is this: grief doesn’t have to be only a wound. In time, and with the right support, it can become a kind of superpower—a deep well of empathy, strength, and resilience. Watching children become less anxious, less fearful, and slowly blossom again… it’s one of the most rewarding and humbling experiences of my life.
space2grieve isn’t just a charity. It’s a community. It’s a lifeline. And I feel deeply grateful to be a part of it.
would you like to volunteer for space2grieve?
If you would like to make a difference to the lives of people in grief in Richmond borough, find out more about volunteering for space2grieve here. Alternatively please give us a call on 0751 937 6363.
